Some insight into my conversations with Mr. GymMama...
Mr. GM: "Honey, you've got muscle tone in your abs!"
Me: "I do? No, I don't think so. The lighting in here is bad."
Mr. GM: "No, really, there's muscle there. Right in the center. That's muscle." (as he pokes my stomach)
Me: "I appreciate the compliment, but really, I think that's just last night's chocolate cake. It's sitting like a rock."
Who says I have delusions of toned abs?